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And Now... "Gay Polygamy"... How "Gay Marriage" Threatens Churches

5/30/2006 3:00:00 PM
By Peter LaBarbera, IFI Executive Director

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"Polyamorous [multiple-partner] relationships among gay people ... have long existed," says the leading homosexual magazine, The Advocate. So isn't it strange that "gay" advocates routinely dismiss the idea that changing the traditional definition of marriage will open the door to polygamy?

No Surprise: Sen. Barack Obama (D) has come out against the federal Marriage Protection Amendment--for all the wrong reasons.

Sen. Dick Durbin (right) betrays the heartland when it comes to voting on homosexuality and abortion. Durbin received a 100% scorecard rating from the radical homosexual D.C. lobby group Human Rights Campaign.

Contact Sens. Durbin and Obama on Marriage Protection Amendment

Please carefully read the following two excerpts, one pointing to the legal dangers of encroaching "gay" activism, the second a nonchalant description of homosexual polygamy from the leading "gay" magazine, The Advocate (emphasis added):
While it may be inconceivable for many to imagine America treating churches that oppose gay "marriage" the same as racists who opposed interracial marriage in the 1960s, just consider the fate of the Boy Scouts.
--Douglas W. Kmiec, professor of constitutional law at Pepperdine University School of Law [Click here to read full article below]



When Pete Chvany feels like kissing his partner Alan Hamilton on the front lawn of their home in Somerville, Mass., he doesn't really care what the neighbors think. And he doesn't mind if Hamilton then gives a kiss to his wife of 22 years, Pepper Greene, or to Hamilton's other male partner, Woody Glenn.

"Anyone who's watching is getting an eyeful," says Chvany, who has been involved in the polyamorous relationship for nine years. "We are out to people in our neighborhood. In effect, Alan has three partners, and we are all his family."

The quartet are among an unknown number of people in the gay and lesbian population who are in a relationship with more than one partner, something of a queer version of HBO's new hit drama series Big Love, in which one man has three wives who all live on the same property and vie for his time and attention. As Big Love brings the issue of polygamy back into the American conversation, polyamorous relationships among gay people (which have long existed) have also become the subject of much debate.

--excerpted from article "Big Gay Love," in the homosexual magazine The Advocate, June 6, 2006

TAKE ACTION: Contact our two U.S. Senators this week about the federal Marriage Protection Amendment, which will be voted on the Senate floor Tuesday, June 6, 2006:

Senator Dick Durbin
(202) 224-2152 - Washington, D.C.
(312) 353-4952 - Chicago
(217 ) 492-4062 - Springfield
(618) 998-8812 - Marion

E-mail Durbin through his website: Sen. Durbin's website (click on e-mail link in the center or scroll down -- then use "other" for issue)

Senator Barack Obama
(202) 224-2854 - Washington, D.C.
(312) 886-3506 - Chicago
(217) 492-5089 - Springfield
(618) 997-2402 - Marion
(309)736-1217 - Moline


E-mail Obama through his website: Sen. Obama's website (click on "Position on an issue" and in the next screen use "other issues" since Obama has no button for "gay marriage")


Dear IFI Readers,

Many of you have asked about our position on the federal Marriage Protection Amendment (MPA, or Senate Joint Resolution 1), which defines marriage as being between a man and a woman (see language below), and which is scheduled for a vote by the full U.S. Senate on Tuesday, June 6th after passing out of the U.S. Senate Judicial committee.

Here is the Alliance for Marriage's description of what the MPA does:
" Marriage in the United States shall consist only of the union of a man and a woman. Neither this Constitution, nor the constitution of any State, shall be construed to require that marriage or the legal incidents thereof be conferred upon any union other than the union of a man and a woman."
  • The first sentence simply states that marriage in the United States consists of the union of one man and one woman.

  • The second sentence ensures that states can determine the allocation of the benefits associated with marriage.

  • Marriage Amendment has no impact at all on benefits offered by private businesses and corporations.

  • People have a right to live as they choose, but no one has the right to redefine marriage for our entire society.
  • Of course, we at IFI favor passage of a federal Constitutional Marriage Amendment--which is necessary to protect against arrogant federal judges who will try to radically redefine marriage against the will of the American people. However, like my good friend and former boss Robert Knight, director of Concerned Women for America's Culture and Family Institute, I do wish the language of the MPA were stronger. It troubles me that Alliance for Marriage is boasting that its Marriage Amendment "ensures that states can determine the allocation" of marriage benefits--because that's talking the language of "civil unions," which is just "gay marriage" by another name.
    The "benefits" of marriage should be kept solely within marriage; that's what we're fighting to preserve. Government- or corporate-sponsored "domestic partnerships," whether "gay" or "straight," undermine the real deal--marriage.
    Click HERE to link to a paper by Knight, which lists some other possibilities for federal marriage amendment language.

    Liberals: what threat to marriage?
    All of the above said, it is remarkable with all that has transpired--e.g., the Massachusetts high court's imposition of "gay marriage" on the people of that state and the threat that it could happen again in Washington, New Jersey and other states--that liberals like our own Sen. Dick Durbin (D) still insist there is no need to constitutionally protect the historic definition of marriage.

    You don't have to be a cheerleader for the current MPA language to know that Sens. Durbin and Obama and others are dead wrong when they assert that current laws are sufficient to protect marriage. (Durbin and Obama are strongly supported by homosexual lobby groups.)

    Here is Bob Knight's listing of the most recent court threats against marriage:
  • Massachusetts -- May 17, 2004: After a ruling by the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court, the state begins issuing marriage licenses to homosexual couples. This leads directly to schools openly promoting homosexuality and to Catholic Charities being forced to stop placing children for adoptions.

  • In 2004, the mayors of several cities, beginning with San Francisco, issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples (Sandoval County, New Mexico; New Paltz, New York, and Multnomah County, Oregon). State courts rule those "marriages" invalid, but appeals are pending.

  • Nebraska -- May 21, 2005: A federal judge overturns the state's constitutional marriage amendment, which had been enacted by a ballot vote of 70 percent.

  • California -- September 6, 2005: The legislature becomes the first in the nation to pass a law mandating legalization of homosexual "marriages." Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger (R) vetoes the bill, but proponents say they'll be back.

  • Connecticut -- October, 2005: Connecticut becomes the sixth state (after California, Hawaii, New Jersey, Massachusetts and Vermont) to offer some form of legal recognition to homosexual couples.

  • Maryland -- January 20, 2006: A Baltimore City Circuit Court judge strikes down the state marriage law, and then stays her order pending appeal.

  • Georgia -- May 16, 2006: A county judge overturns the state marriage protection amendment enacted in 2004 by a 76-percent ballot vote.

  • Utah -- May 16, 2006: The state Supreme Court upholds the bigamy conviction of a former police officer, Rodney Holm. He had challenged the marriage law after being convicted in 2002 upon his third "marriage." Chief Justice Christine Durham dissents, saying the state law violates the "privacy of intimate, personal relationships" and religious freedom.

  • Washington -- The state Supreme Court will rule soon on a challenge to that state's marriage law, as will the high court in New Jersey. Both courts are dominated by liberals. Unlike Massachusetts, neither Washington nor New Jersey has a law barring marriages to out-of-state couples whose own states do not recognize "gay" marriage. Thus, if either state begins issuing marriage licenses to couples from the other 49 states, the recipients will return to their own states and file lawsuits challenging not only their state laws but the federal Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA). (Congress passed DOMA in 1996 defining marriage for all purposes as only the union of one man and one woman, and affirming that states may reject claims against their marriage laws that do not conform to their stated public policy.) On February 4, CWA filed an amicus brief in the Washington Supreme Court urging the court to reverse a trial court decision permitting same-sex "marriage."

  • Lawsuits filed by homosexual activists seeking to overturn state marriage laws are pending in 10 states: California, Connecticut, Florida, Iowa, Maryland, Nebraska, New Jersey, New York, Oklahoma and Washington. [Here in Illinois, the "gay marriage" lawsuites have not yet been filed, but homosexual militants have "demanded" marriage licences despite our state's clear law defining marriage as between a man and a woman.]
  • Please use the contact information above to write or call Sens. Durbin and Obama to inform them that there is an urgent need to protect marriage from being redefined.

    Also, please send this e-mail out to your friends and relatives in other states. For those who receive this e-mail in another state, you can identify your U.S. Senators and their contact information by clicking this U.S. Senate Website link.

    Sincerely,

    Peter LaBarbera
    Executive Director
    Illinois Family Institute
    info@illinoisfamily.org


    P.S. The following is an excellent opinion article in the Chicago Tribune that explains how legalizing counterfeit "same-sex marriage" (like the rest of the "sexual orientation" legal agenda) threatens religious freedoms including the tax-exempt status of churches.

    Chicago Tribune article:

    If gays marry, churches could suffer
    May 26, 2006
    By Douglas W. Kmiec, a professor of constitutional law at Pepperdine University School of Law


    After an acrimonious session in which Sen. Russell Feingold (D-Wis.) stomped out and Committee Chairman Arlen Specter (R-Pa.) bid him "good riddance," the Senate Judiciary Committee approved sending the federal marriage amendment to the full Senate.

    The Feingold-Specter tiff illustrates the intensity of feeling about adding to the text of the Constitution what the founders surely thought was obvious: "Marriage in the United States shall consist only of the union of a man and a woman." The need to reaffirm the self-evident was prompted by Massachusetts' judicial recognition of same-sex "marriage," which motivated more than a dozen states to overwhelmingly proclaim otherwise.
    With the states being so vigilant in defense of traditional marriage, is there really a need for the people to act? Yes. Activists are deployed across the country challenging traditional marriage, and it is more than likely that some additional judges will compound the Massachusetts mistake. This increased judicial approval of same-sex "marriage" will metastasize into the larger culture. Indeed, an insidious, but less recognized, consequence will be a push to demonize--and then punish--faith communities that refuse to bless homosexual unions.

    While it may be inconceivable for many to imagine America treating churches that oppose gay "marriage" the same as racists who opposed interracial marriage in the 1960s, just consider the fate of the Boy Scouts. The Scouts have paid dearly for asserting their 1st Amendment right not to be forced to accept gay scoutmasters. In retaliation, the Scouts have been denied access to public parks and boat slips, charitable donation campaigns and other government benefits. The endgame of gay activists is to strip the Boy Scouts (and by extension, any other organization that morally opposes gay marriage) of its tax-exempt status under both federal and state law.

    For technical legal reasons, it is difficult to challenge a religious group's non-profit status in federal court, but state court is more open. There, judicial decisions approving same-sex marriage or even state laws barring discrimination can be used to pronounce any opposing moral or religious doctrine to be "contrary to public policy." So declared, it would be short work for a state attorney general's opinion to deny the tax-exempt status of charities and most orthodox Jewish, Christian and Islamic religious bodies. If enough state lawyers do this, expect the IRS to chime in.

    Punishing religious organizations for their moral beliefs might be thought contrary to the protections of the Constitution. Unfortunately, the Boy Scouts have had little success defending these bedrock precepts. Penalizing the Scouts for observing their own handbook, say lower courts, merely avoids the immediate harm of discrimination, even as the bald-faced assertion that moral belief is a "harm" is anomalous.

    For the moment, same-sex "marriage" is confined to a single state, but litigation is ongoing in 10 states from New York to California. Three years ago, the Supreme Court came close to endorsing gay and lesbian "marriage" when it declared that morality alone was no basis for lawmaking. The court is under new management and is acting more restrained. But the political lobbying and litigating are unrelenting, and the targeting of the Scouts reveals that same-sex success can come by indirection.

    That churches can be made the collateral casualties of the same-sex "marriage" campaign is important to grasp. At a minimum it gives partial answer to the view of indifference that asks how gay "marriage" hurts anyone. When judges treat your religious community, its schools and its charities on par with the purveyors of racial hatred, it will no longer be necessary to ask. But then, it will also be too late.

    Many share the view, as I do, that marriage is a moral reality incapable of redefinition by court edict. Others disagree. Sending the federal marriage amendment to the states allows for an honest and civil debate, which is far better than back-door vengeance against moral dissenters--or is it a moral majority?

    By Douglas W. Kmiec, a professor of constitutional law at Pepperdine University School of Law.

    Other Helpful Resources

  • "Homosexuality: The Threat to the Family and the Attack on Marriage" (excellent Family Research Council paper by Peter Sprigg)

  • "Comparing the Lifestyles of Homosexual Couples to Married Couples" (Family Research Council paper by Tim Dailey; a MUST READ if you're still buying the myth of "gay monogamy"--Peter L.)

  • Why a Federal Marriage Amendment Is Needed (Knight and CWA do not support the current federal marriage amendment language; they favor Home School Legal Defense Association President Michael Farris' proposed language: "Marriage in the United States shall consist only of the union of a man and a woman. Neither the United States nor any State shall recognize or grant to any unmarried person the legal rights or status of a spouse.")

  • READ IT FOR YOURSELF: Homosexual magazine The Advocate's website, containing story "Big Gay Love" on homosexual multiple-partner relationships

  • If you consider yourself "gay" or "lesbian" but are open to the possibility of healthy change and would like to get right with God, try visiting one of these websites:
  • Stephen Bennett Ministries (Bennett is a former "gay" man who found forgiveness through Jesus Christ and is now happily married with children; his ministry is traveling to Israel this summer to lovingly confront a worldwide "Gay Pride" parade in Jerusalem)

  • Redeemed Lives Ministries (founded by former homosexual Mario Bergner; this Wheaton-based Christian group is moving to Massachusetts but it will continue its worldwide outreach)

  • Exodus International (This is the leading umbrella group for ex-homosexual ministries; Exodus is holding its annual conference June 27-July 2 at Indiana Wesleyan University)



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